THE KHALIFAH DIARIES Be The Best Muslimah For Allah SWT

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Salam dear sister, Ramadan Kareem! As we find ourselves immersed in this beautiful month of Ramadan, I would like to share with you some thoughts and action steps to enrich your experience during this blessed month. Let’s support each other as we aim to get closer to Allah SWT.

Before we start, I hope this little poem inspires you to take action, dear sister. 

“In Ramadan’s Gentle Breeze”

In Ramadan’s gentle breeze, my soul finds peace,

As hustle and bustle quiet, worries cease.

Reflection and connection with Allah, I seek,

In moments of stillness, humble and meek.

From dawn till dusk, fasting draws me near,

To count blessings and shed a grateful tear.

Self-discipline and sacrifice, yes, they’re tough,

But in them, I find growth, and that’s enough.

Late-night prayers echo with heartfelt plea,

Drawing closer to my Creator, I feel free.

Gratitude fills me, as I cleanse my heart,

In Ramadan’s embrace, I find a fresh start.

More than just a month, it’s a soul’s journey,

A time for transformation, in faith’s tourney.

Ramadan reminds of resilience and grace,

A beautiful reminder in Allah’s embrace.

I hope this poem reminds you how Allah SWT is always closer to us than we can even comprehend. He knows our intentions and He knows that we are trying our best to please Him. 

Just keep giving Him your best and that is enough insyaAllah. May Allah reward us immensely this Ramadan and may He forgive all our past sins to start anew. Ameen. 

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever observes fasts during the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith, and hoping to attain Allah’s rewards, then all his past sins will be forgiven.” (Sahih Bukhari and Muslim)

This article is like a to-do list of things you should focus on during Ramadan. I try to make it as simple and clear as possible so that it’s easy for all of us to take action. In the end, Allah looks at our efforts, and the struggles we face when we try our best to please Him.

So don’t feel overwhelmed or disheartened if you can’t do some of these things. Just do your best. That is more than enough to Allah. InsyaAllah. 

I am also a work-in-progress. Let’s keep reminding each other to do our best insyaAllah. 🙂

Okay, let’s get into it.

Step 1: Set Your Intentions & Goals

“Verily, deeds are only by intentions, and for every person is what he intended…” (Sahih Bukhari)

Start your Ramadan journey by setting clear intentions and goals. Think about what you want to achieve during this special month—maybe you want to ask for forgiveness, learn more about the Quran, or just be more patient. Make sure your actions match your intentions, and aim to please Allah SWT.

Little actions:

– Take some time to think about what you want to achieve during Ramadan.

– Maybe you want to be more patient, learn more about Islam, or ask for forgiveness.

– Write down your goals in simple words, like a to-do list.

– Make sure your actions match what you want to achieve.

– Share your goals with someone you trust, like a friend or family member.

– Plan out how you’ll work on each goal, step by step.

– Check in on your progress regularly and adjust your plans if needed.

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Step 2: Embrace Fasting

“O you who have believed, decreed upon you is fasting as it was decreed upon those before you that you may become righteous.” (Quran 2:183)

During fasting, remember its importance and stay patient and thankful. Each time you feel hungry or thirsty, see it as a chance to grow closer to Allah SWT. You’re only doing this for Him so it’s a great way to strengthen your self-discipline.

Read also: 20 Beautiful Ramadhan Quotes By Yasmin Mogahed

Little actions:

– Remember why you’re fasting: to get closer to Allah and learn self-control.

– When you feel hungry or thirsty, stay patient and grateful, knowing you’re doing it for Allah.

– Use those hungry moments to think about your faith and how you can be a better person.

– Think about people who don’t have enough food or water, and be thankful for what you have.

– Spend more time praying or reading the Quran to feel closer to Allah while you’re fasting.

Step 3: Engage in more Ibadahs (acts of worship)

Aisha reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, used to strive more in worship during Ramadan than he strove in any other time of the year. (Muslim)

Make time every day for Ibadahs. Read the Quran, make Salah, and think about how Allah’s teachings apply to your life. These moments can bring you peace and Allah’s hidayah (guidance), so try to do as much of it as you can.

Read also: 14 Fabulous Morning Habits To Brighten Your Day

Little actions:

– Every day, find some time to do little ibadahs that increase your iman (faith).

– Read a bit of the Quran and think about what it means to you.

“The month of Ramadan [is that] in which was revealed the Quran, a guidance for the people and clear proofs of guidance and criterion.” (Quran 2:185)

– Don’t forget to pray your daily prayers (Salah), and try to focus when you do.

– Take a moment to think about how Allah’s teachings apply to your life.

– Remember Allah throughout your day by saying nice things about Him or asking for His forgiveness.

– If you can, join a group or attend talks to learn more about Islam and feel closer to Allah SWT.

Read also: 10 Easy Steps To Make A Dua List For Ramadan

Step 4: Look for Laylat al-Qadr

“The Night of Decree is better than a thousand months. The angels and the Spirit descend therein by permission of their Lord for every matter. Peace it is until the emergence of dawn.” (Quran 97:3-5)

In the last ten nights of Ramadan, put extra effort into your prayers. Laylat al-Qadr is a super special night, so try to make the most of it. Spend extra time praying and asking Allah for forgiveness with all your heart.

Read also: Ramadhan Tips: 14 Ways To Get Closer To Allah

Little actions:

– Stay awake during the last ten nights of Ramadan, especially on odd-numbered nights.

– Make extra Salah and read more Quran during these nights.

– Take some time to think about your life and ask Allah to forgive you for any mistakes.

– Make sincere duas asking Allah for help and guidance.

– Do good deeds and help others during this time.

– Remember that Laylat al-Qadr is a really special night, so stay hopeful and keep praying.

Step 5: Be Thankful and Kind

“And whoever volunteers good – then indeed, Allah is appreciative and Knowing.” (Quran 2:158)

Show gratitude for everything Allah has given you by being generous to others. When you give more during Ramadan, Allah promises to reward you even more. So, share your blessings with friends, family, and those in need.

Little actions:

– Take time to appreciate all the good things in your life and say thank you to Allah.

“So remember Me; I will remember you. And be grateful to Me and do not deny Me.” (Quran 2:152)

– Do nice things for other people, like sharing food or helping out.

– Look for ways to help those who don’t have as much as you do, like volunteering or giving to charity.

– Try to stay positive and focus on the good stuff, even when things get tough.

– Share your happiness with your friends and family by inviting them over or giving them gifts.

– Remember, being kind and generous doesn’t just make others happy, it also brings you closer to Allah and earns you more blessings during Ramadan.

Read also: 30 Quranic Duas To Make For A More Meaningful Ramadhan

Step 6: Support Your Sisters

“Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease. Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease.” (Quran 94:5-6)

Lean on your fellow Muslim sisters for help and encouragement during Ramadan. We’re a strong community, so let’s stick together. Offer support to others and be there for each other whenever needed.

Little actions:

– Reach out to your Muslim sisters and check in on how they’re doing during Ramadan.

– Attend community iftars or gatherings to connect with other sisters and build bonds of friendship.

– Offer to help out with tasks or errands for sisters who may need assistance during Ramadan.

– Organize a study group or Quranic circle with other sisters to learn and grow together spiritually.

– Share words of encouragement and support with your sisters, reminding them of the importance of unity and sisterhood in Islam.

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “When the month of Ramadan starts, the gates of the heaven are opened and the gates of Hell are closramaed and the devils are chained.” (Sahih Bukhari)

– Be a listening ear and provide emotional support to sisters who may be facing challenges or difficulties during Ramadan.

– Pray for the well-being and success of your fellow Muslim sisters, asking Allah to bless them and grant them strength and perseverance, especially for our brothers & sisters in Palestine and others who are suffering around the world.

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Step 7: Reflect and Renew

As Ramadan comes to an end, take some time to think about your how your journey with Allah went and how you’ve grown. Renew your commitment to be the best Muslimah you can be for Allah SWT even after Ramadan. Carry the lessons you’ve learned with you and keep striving to be your best self.

Little actions:

– Take some time to think about how Ramadan went for you and what you learned.

– Write down your thoughts and feelings in a journal if you want.

– Figure out how you can keep doing the good stuff you started during Ramadan even after it’s over.

– Make a list of things you want to work on or do better in your journey to get closer to Allah SWT.

– Promise yourself to keep making Salah, reading the Quran, and remembering Allah every day.

– Talk to someone you trust, like a friend or anyone who reminds you of Allah SWT, if you need help sticking to your goals.

– Remember to be patient with yourself and trust that Allah is always there to help you out.

Conclusion: Ramadan Kareem everyone!

Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:

“Indeed, there is a gate of Paradise called Ar-Rayyan, and those who observe fasts will enter through it on the Day of Resurrection, and none except them will enter through it. It will be said, ‘Where are those who used to observe fasts?’ They will get up, and none except them will enter through it. After their entry, the gate will be closed and nobody will enter through it.” (Sahih Bukhari and Muslim)

I hope this Ramadan brings you closer to Allah SWT and the Quran, dear sister. Let’s keep supporting each other and walking this path in increasing our iman (faith) and taqwa (consciousness of Allah) together. 

Ramadan Mubarak, and may Allah bless you abundantly now and always.

Love & Salam,

Aimi

Any good from this article is from Allah and any evil is from the shaytaan and me. May Allah forgive our shortcomings in practicing His deen.

Wa billahi tawfeeq wa hidayah

(All successes come from Allah and His guidance).